Get Out of the Way!
Sometimes we get in our own way. As Henry Ford said, “Whether you think you can or you think you can’t, you’re right”. When it comes to believing in ourselves, for many of us, it takes a lot of self-talk just to get out brains around a positive attitude. In fact, negative, doubting thoughts might come more naturally to some of us! But if we start out with the perspective that “we can’t do it” or “it can’t be done”, well, take it from Henry Ford, we’ll be right.
Often our confidence breaks down because a task seems too big, and we become mentally exhausted at the thought of taking on a challenge. Because of this, we may never begin. But don’t overwhelm yourself with the big picture. I have to remind myself of this every time I start a new novel. In fact, this might be a pep talk just for me. Without it, I wouldn’t even begin chapter 1.
Instead of trying to suck the whole story in at once, choking over the many details to define and organize, I write down the biggest aspects of the story (not caring at all about the details). I then break those elements down. I may break the next level down, again, and again, until I get to a step that I can manage. Taking it step-by-step, with each task completed I feel a sense of accomplishment. It boosts my confidence to continue on to the next step. Maybe it’s not an organized next step, but I don’t worry about it. I slice off a piece of the challenge that I feel I can do, and I get it done. Accomplishments, satisfaction, confidence—you’ll blossom like an English garden.
Whether it’s cleaning the kitchen, prioritizing your day or taking back your life, what is it that you want to accomplish? Write down some positive steps that will take you where you want to go. Pick one you can handle and complete it. See how good it feels.
Is there a dream you’ve had for years and never acted on? Is there a project you’ve never started? Is there a resume’ you need to complete? Or are you simply trying to get more organized? Break it down, do it, and then let me know how it goes. I’d love to hear your comments.
PS You can do it—just get out of the way!
And if Henry Ford hasn’t inspired you, take it from God: “For I have not given you the spirit of fear (intimidation), but of power and of love and of a strong mind.” 2 Timothy 1:7
September 15th, 2009 in
Great Quotes, Overcoming Adversity | tags: adversity, bible verse, God, Great Quotes, Henry Ford, overcoming, Overcoming Adversity, Step By Step
I must have needed this inspiration right now. I have been cleaning, straightening, and organizing the house since 6:30 this morning, it is 2:00. I am almost done but still have a few little details to do yet. I made a list so I can cross things off as they are completed. I need to do this to keep me going and watch the list dwindle. Thanks for the inspiration Rita, now I’ll go finish the list.